Why did your partner left you?

Being abandoned by a loved one can be very intense and painful, and you are often left with many issues. In this blog we explain the reasons behind leaving a loved one. Where did things go wrong, and which main issues often play a role?

 
 

When you are suddenly abandoned, this has a major impact on your daily life. It may be that your entire rhythm and balance has been disrupted because you do not have answers to important life questions that ensure that you can move on in life. You most likely feel misunderstood, and you have the feeling that you cannot continue on your lifepath, and you may also experience lower self-esteem, which causes you to end up in a downward spiral.

 

When there is no longer contact between the two of you, you can feel very lonely. You have so many questions that you still want answers to. How does someone just disappear? For anyone who has gone through this, it is an important matter to move on with your life.

 
 

1. Meeting a new love
is one of the most common reasons your ex-partner left you. When a loved one leaves you unannounced for someone else, they (more often) leave you without answers out of a feeling of shame. It is difficult for your (ex)partner to communicate about this matter because he or she is afraid of reproaches.

 

When a person has difficulty with the problems in a relationship, or with themselves, this person may act impulsively out of insecurity and fear by leaving in a hurry. This often has to do with a closed attitude or not seeing a way out. The problems arise which causes them to act out of intense emotions.

 

When unresolved traumas arise in a new relationship, this can feel very oppressive. The person is not done with old pain and can project this into the new relationship. This creates confrontation and the person prefers to walk away because it is too intense to deal with the past.

 

A person who has a closed energy and has difficulty communicating their feelings may distance themselves out of frustration, leaving you without answers to your questions. The reason behind this is often that insight into one's own patterns is lacking.

 

When a person cannot cope with financial problems or does not dare to tell them, this person may flee from shame and avoid contact.

 

When a person is too afraid because there is no clear vision of the future, they can run away from the unknown.

 

When you have been abandoned it is very important to accept the situation. You can only do this when you have received certain answers and insights. Time is an important part of finding yourself again. Seek support from friends and family and try to communicate what you are feeling. It is important that your feelings are heard and that you can accept support from others, including distractions. The fact that a person is not ready for connection has nothing to do with you. In some cases, this person will try to return at a later stage because insights have been gained. Would you like to have more insights about a similar situation? Then start a chat with recognized spiritual coaches now.